Start with respect
Every person you meet deserves dignity. Be curious without being intrusive, accept “no” immediately, and remember that cultural differences are never an excuse for cruelty.
Keep it real
- Be yourself and do not impersonate another person or organization
- Do not use bots, deceptive recordings, or manipulated identity claims
- Do not scam, request money, promote investments, or send spam
- Do not pressure anyone to move to another platform or share private details
No sexual or exploitative content
TenderU is for general social conversation. Nudity, sexual content, sexual solicitation, grooming, exploitation, and any sexual content involving minors are prohibited.
No harm or hate
Threats, bullying, stalking, doxxing, graphic violence, encouragement of self-harm, extremist praise, and attacks based on protected characteristics are not allowed. If someone may be in immediate danger, contact local emergency services.
Protect privacy
Do not record, screenshot, publish, or distribute another person’s conversation or personal information without their permission. Never share passwords, payment information, or identity documents.
Use your controls
Leave any conversation that feels wrong. Block to prevent further contact and report behavior that may violate these Guidelines. Reports should be honest and include useful context when possible.
How we enforce
Depending on severity and history, TenderU may warn, restrict, suspend, or remove accounts and content. Serious threats or illegal activity may be preserved or reported where required by law.